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Pet Loss Support

You don't have to grieve alone. Here are communities, hotlines, books, and professionals who truly understand the depth of losing a beloved companion.

"The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it."
— Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

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Online Communities

Reddit r/Petloss

A compassionate community of over 200,000 members sharing their grief, stories, and support. Post a photo, share a memory, or simply read others' experiences to feel less alone.

The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement

Offers moderated online chat rooms, a directory of pet loss support groups, and trained volunteers who understand exactly what you're going through.

Facebook Pet Loss Support Groups

Search Facebook for "pet loss support" to find active groups with thousands of members. These communities post daily, and new members are always warmly welcomed.

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Hotlines & Helplines

ASPCA Pet Loss Support Hotline

The ASPCA offers grief counselling resources and guidance for those struggling with pet loss. Their website also provides a directory of local support resources.

Cornell University Pet Loss Support Hotline

Run by veterinary students trained in grief support. A compassionate ear from people who understand the human-animal bond deeply.

Iowa State University Pet Loss Support

Provides telephone support and resources for people grieving the loss of a companion animal.

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Books & Reading

The Loss of a Pet by Wallace Sife

Widely considered the definitive guide to pet bereavement. Warm, honest, and deeply compassionate — written by a psychologist who has helped thousands of grieving pet owners.

Goodbye, Friend by Gary Kowalski

A gentle spiritual reflection on the bond between humans and animals, and how to find meaning and healing after loss.

Dog Heaven / Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant

Beautiful illustrated books originally for children, but deeply comforting for adults too. A gentle imagining of what life might be like for your pet now.

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Professional Support

A Grief-Informed Therapist

If your grief feels overwhelming or persistent, a therapist who understands pet loss can make a profound difference. Search for "pet loss grief counsellor" in your area, or ask your vet for a referral.

Your Veterinarian

Many vets are trained in grief support and can point you toward local resources. Don't hesitate to reach out to the practice that cared for your pet — they grieve too.

Further Reading

→ Pet Loss Resources — 10 Tips for Coping with Grief→ How to Cope with Losing a Pet — A Gentle Guide→ 10 things your dog would say→ Do pets know they are loved→ Why we imagine pets watching form stars
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